Post by Bad Beth on Jul 16, 2014 15:25:39 GMT
fetlife.com/groups/129/group_posts/5609269 Disability frustrations: Viewed as unintelligent
"Things had to be "dumbed down" for me as well. Math was dropped for me in high school because I wasn't learning it or grasping it so they gave me different math than the math other kids in my grade were doing. I did learn to balance a checkbook and write checks and it didn't take me long to learn it at all. I was able to remember how to do it. I also can't even help my step son with his homework because it's too hard and I still feel stupid sometimes and I can't cook, only simple things like pasta or eggs or pancakes or cookies and cake using the mix, because I cannot understand the directions and I still can't do fractions and I never got a college degree because of my learning disability so I am limited to uneducated jobs and it makes finding employment for me tough. I also can't even remember how to do something that isn't in my routine and I need to be shown how again. This pisses some people off. I am also a hands on learner so I cannot be told to do things and then be expected to do it without a walk through. You cannot tell me to sweep the floor and then expect me to do it. I need more direction. Tell me what floors to sweep, how hard is that?
My husband tells me he often has to rephrase things for me or remind me to do things because I tend to forget. I will write stuff down and hang it somewhere where I can see it. My husband also does it for me too. I couldn't get a job as a cashier because of my math skills. I was given a worksheet to do and I found it easy but had little difficulty with some of the problems. I thought machines had calculators on them. I also feel I can do anything if people will let me. I can read and write well, I can drive and use my feet. I know numbers and basic math. People have a hard time believing I had help through school and had the IEP and had a tutor and went to a special school for learning disorders because they think I am smart. I have gotten at my old work, "Why don't you go to college? You're smart." I know people with LDs have gone to college but I had troubles in everything in school. Then it was easier when I went to my new school because I had more help then in school. I was also assumed to be stupid by kids and retarded."
www.adisc.org/forum/greetings-introductions/86883-hello-im-james-i-m-fully-bowel-urinary-ic-i-need-ur-help-choosing-new-diaper.html
"I have been incontinent for 22 years and I never had to carry a pad with me everywhere I go. I have always used a good diaper. You need to find a better diaper product to use. If you're are leaking all the time, it's because they are not the right diapers for you, you need something better. Perhaps a Tena Maxi Plus or Abena M4 or Molicare Super Plus. Anything that holds a lot. Tena Maxi is more discreet because they are thin but hold a lot. I have also used plastic pants for extra protection because leaks still do occur when i don't change soon enough and it's hard to tell when I should do it. I just prefer ones that hold a lot so I don't have to worry about it. I also like a thick diaper because it always assures me I am protected and I don't mind the cushion padding. I find it to be comfortable."
www.adisc.org/forum/diaper-talk/86565-medical-supply-companies-ab-dl-2.html
"Back in the days I used to get "How do I become incontinent?" and ask me what is the best way they can do it and they would also tell me how lucky I am to live like a real baby in them. It used to bother me because they had no idea what it's like to need to wear them. I also think now if anyone asks me how I became incontinent, they are just trying to see how they can be incontinent. Unless it's a vanilla asking it, I will gladly tell them how it happened but not a AB/DL I don't know well. Unless I know they don't want to be IC. I just try to be careful who I tell.
I wonder now whenever I buy some at the shop, if anyone there is going to think I am a AB/DL because of my young age. I don't look disabled either."
www.adisc.org/forum/diaper-talk/85581-what-your-best-worst-diapered-experience.html
"Well gosh darn, I don't think I have a best diaper experience because I need to wear them. I would say my best ones are always being protected from my own accidents.
My worst diaper experience, being made fun of about it in school and the leaks and blow outs and messing at the wrong times and wetting and not always being able to change or running out which is very rare."
"I think my best diaper experience would be when my daddy took me out for the day and we went to the park together and we had our food packed for a picnic and my diaper bag. I pooped and told him I did a poo poo and he decides to change me. He decided to do it in the park and I was not comfortable with it but he told me he will find a private spot to do it where there won't be any people and he took me to where there were lot of bushes around and he lied out a blanket and had me lie on it and he took out my diaper supplies and put the underpad under me and I had my dress pulled up and he started to change me. I kept my eyes closed because it was so embarrassing and I didn't want anyone to see and he assured me no one will see us unless they have a pair of binoculars or walk up to us. Then he put a fresh diaper on me and pulled my dress down and we both lied down together. It wasn't so bad and no one ever said anything and he told me no one saw us.
Or my other best diaper experience would be when my cousin put one of mine on and she wore it and used it. But she decided it wasn't her thing."
www.adisc.org/forum/diaper-talk/86862-where-do-you-buy-your-diapers.html
"Medical supply store here and I had gotten diapers from Boots and they work fine but aren't my best. I also get them online like places like ebay or Cuddlz or abdl factory, and I get my main ones through NHS."
fetlife.com/groups/1733/group_posts/5672023 A question for littles/ageplayers
"Why do I like to be a little or ageplayer whatever you want to call it, I find the adult life stressful and I find it comforting to be a little girl and it takes the stress off me. I still have my adult life, I am a parent, I clean, I take care of myself and my son and watch my cousin's kids or my little brother."
fetlife.com/groups/1147/group_posts/3059039 Littles and Daddies getting married
"My daddy and I have been married for two and been together officially for four years. He actually asked me out of the blue one day "Do you want to get married?" Then he said he didn't mean right this instant because of course you have to plan it before it happens. It meant a lot to him and since I wanted to be with him and don't plan on leaving him or going back to my home country, we got married. It was just our parents and immediate families and first relatives. I am his second wife but his first little girl. He's happier with me. We didn't have a fancy wedding. No limos or fancy wedding dress. We didn't have a band or DJs. We just used our own songs and had our own stereo and speakers. Someone on my husband's side has those speakers and brought them there and everyone brought their CDs for us to play for everyone. You can say we were cheap lol. My daddy is happy being married to me and feels closer."
fetlife.com/groups/336/group_posts/5666731 Has anyone ended up going 24/7 and then got sick of the fetish
"I have to wear them 24/7 so I can never get sick of it but I do get sick of diapers. I always have to change them and clean myself up from it and I hate getting rashes, not fun when you are incontinent. I often don't pay attention to what's in my diaper so I am wet without knowing it. Then I feel damp and I have no memory of how many times I peed it. Then it leaks. I try to stick to a changing schedule but it varies because it depends what I drink and how much fluids I had. I know pop does not go well with it or alcohol. I am not much of a drinker anyway and have only been drunk once. Gosh I went through so many diapers that night and I was too drunk to do it myself so someone else had to change them for me and it was so embarrassing when I found out. If i had the option to quit wearing them and could magically get my control back without any possible side affects, I probably wouldn't wear them for a while. My husband would have to diaper me whenever he wants. I also wonder if I would not be into AB/DL because I got my control back. Then my daddy would basically lose his baby girl and only have a wife. I think I would still be his little girl sometimes just to make him happy and happily use the diapers too while playing."
www.wrongplanet.net/posts262224-start15.html
"I was friends with a 39 year old mother when I was 15. I was in a relationship with her son and she had Asperger's too as did he. We had things in common and she was friends with my mother too but she was less affected by it than my mom was. Then we lost contact when her son broke up with me and her and my mom didn't stay in touch. I can understand why she didn't with me because I was too young for her and underage and it wouldn't have been appropriate. She thought my mom was annoying according to her son and no wonder she can't get along with people and why she has no friends. She always tolerated her and bent over backwards because she was milder. That's probably why she didn't stay friends with her and I remember they both got in a fight once too while her son and I were still together and I told her my ex told me his mom thinks she is annoying. Then she said she didn't need that kind of friend then if she is always annoyed by her."
www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=28957&hl=
"I have worn while swimming but never while showering or taking a bath. It gets uncomfortable after a while when it gets filled with so much water. The diaper just keeps on absorbing it and doesn't stop. Then pretty soon it just pops open and all the insides gets all over. You wouldn't want that in the pool and then everyone sees you wear diapers. But I wear swim diapers. If I poop in them, I rinse them out in the shower or toilet and come back out."
www.adisc.org/forum/diaper-talk/86927-diapers-having-children.html
"I have two boys, a son and step son. They both know I wear them. My step says nothing about it hardly and my autistic son says nothing. Does it feel weird to wear them? Not really. I felt that way as a kid because I wanted children and I thought it would be weird to wear them with kids but now I don't feel that way anymore. But my son did out my medical condition in school. He drew a picture of his family and he drew me in my diaper and I had some explaining to do when his teacher asked me about it. I never kept it hidden from him. I don't hide it from my step son either but I don't go out of my way flaunting it."
www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=44447&hl=
"I wish I was in the 90% because I always had to wake up in wet beds and I had to learn to sleep on my back. I wear double protection at night, a thick diaper and plastic pants and I have a bed pad to protect my sheets."
fetlife.com/groups/18060/group_posts/5673806 Strangest things school teachers said or did
*Natalie talks about Mrs. Kink*
I had a sub teacher who was mean to her students. She liked to make us suffer and threaten us and she threatened to tell everyone about my incontinence, she once took a toy from a student and tossed it on the ground breaking it, she liked to make fun of us thinking it would get us to write better on the board, she didn't like any movement in our chairs or doodling and she wanted us to sit like zombies, she was always slamming the ruler on our desks, she claimed I punched her when I didn't, she liked to humiliate her students, she was like Mrs. Trunchbull except she wasn't as mean like the character was. But she was the reality version of her. Then when she felt she was losing control of her class, she decided to switch me from her class saying I would be better in a different class and I was having troubles in her room and with other students. I was confused about her niceness all of a sudden and then I figured out she only did that to get rid of me because I was causing her to lose control of her students since they all knew she had no way of sending them to another school or to jail and she can't tell other students about her students medical conditions. It wasn't long before my mom came to my school to have a meeting with her and the next day she was gone.
*Then she talks about her kindergarten teacher*
I had a teacher in kindergarten who didn't like me. She didn't like me playing alone or how I played with puzzles and me looking at the lights or ceiling, playing with paper clips or rocking back and forth or smelling things. She would also pull my hair sometimes and grab me hard her nails were digging into my skin and she liked to exclude me from class activities. All she got was a suspension and I was moved to a different kindergarten class.
In my junior year of high school, one of my teachers was caught having sex in the janitor's closet with a student and she was sacked and charges were made even though 16 is the age of consent but the kid was under age and the teacher was more than 60 months older than him."
When I was taking a fun class in college, my art teacher decided to talk to me after class and I happened to stay behind because I was slow in cleaning up my mess and he started to talk to me differently and putting his arm around me and rubbing me and it felt nice. Then he tried to invite me to his house and told me he will show me different ways of having love. Luckily I knew then and I told him no way and it was illegal for him to date his own students and have sex and it can get him fired. Then he told me if only they know about it and if I don't tell anyone. But I wasn't even attracted to this guy and he was way too old for me so I told him that and he kept trying to pressure me. Then another teacher walked in and started talking to him and I finished cleaning up and left and I never went back to that class again. I quit going. I told my parents and I was told to file a complaint about it to get my dad's money back so I did and I don't know what happened to him. He did get refunded. I wonder how the teacher would have reacted if he discovered my diaper."
www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=44452&hl=
"My nine year old son told people at school about my diapers by drawing me in them and my 12 year old step son would tell strangers whenever they wouldn't let me use the toilet to change or use the family toilet or the time I needed paper towels because I had used up all my wipes and toilet paper cleaning up my messy accident. I have gotten better at telling them about my medical condition when need to. They will never see me again. My husband first spilled the beans to his son about my diapers and he took it well."
fetlife.com/groups/1733/group_posts/5663211 Am I the only one?
"That was how my daddy found me. He wanted a ABDL girl but he wasn't looking for one because he knew the chances were slim and then he met me and I had no idea he was one and he had no idea about me either. We started out as friends online after meeting in person and then I moved over here and we started to date and then I told him about my incontinence and he took it well acting like it was normal, then I introduced him to ab/dl and it turned out he was into it too but he was a daddy and he always wanted a baby girl and told me immature women turned him on and childlike ones. Since I can be immature and I am considered childlike, it worked out. I can be myself and he won't see me as a baby all the time. He finds some things I do as cute. I found a good guy too by not looking. Sometimes that is what you have to do to find your man/woman.
I did have another daddy and he was a vanilla. He was fine with my medical condition and he even changed me and bought me diapers, including printed ones. He was also fine with me until I introduced him to AB/DL and asked him to be my daddy and he was open about it and I had to show him how to do it and then a few weeks later he decided it wasn't his thing and decided to dump me because he saw everything about me as a baby and said he thought he had a girlfriend, not a baby. But he wasn't the right guy for me then so when I met my current daddy, I introduced it to him a lot sooner so I wouldn't waste my time again with the wrong guy and I was worried for a while he would get sick of me and dump me too thinking everything I do is AB related. He wanted a woman too, not a 24/7 baby. I have liked daddy figures as long as I can remember. I discovered it when I was in high school when I realized I liked men who take care of women and keep them safe and comfortable.
Yeah I may be a bitch in my profile but that is because I am sick of creeps who want me to be their mommy and not take no for an answer or only want to talk about my medical condition and want to know how they can lose bladder control and asking me how I got mine. I am a real mommy, not a mommy. I am a baby girl, not a mommy. I am a real caretaker, not a kink caretaker. I also do not role play. You will turn into a bitch too if you got so sick of being pressured and men not respecting you. Just try pretending to be a woman for once and see how many messages you get from guys. Yes I wear diapers and I am incontinent and I am a AB/DL but I do not want to be seen as for my diapers or baby girl. I also have it in my writings too where I rant more about this. But trust me, if you talk to me like a normal person than about diapers only or trying to find a mommy, you will see I am not so bitchy. If you aren't one of those creepers, you will be just fine. The worst I can do is not respond to you at all."
www.wrongplanet.net/postt263312.html
"I don't think it was any better for people on the spectrum. My mom was born in '57 and doctors thought she had brain damage and mental retardation and told my grandmother to just put her in an institution. No one touched the autism label and her younger brother was diagnosed but not her and at the time the refrigerator mother theory was going around. Though one teacher thought when she was about eight she was autistic but my grandma wouldn't go there. She and her brother were both different. Also treatment for special needs was bad then so my mom got some of it in special ed and she was kept away from normal kids. She got other labels in her teens like schizophrenia and she was also labeled as having a learning issue. It was noted she had cognitive issues and problems with socialization and communication and with her coordination and motor skills. No one understood why she would lash out at people or have sudden outbursts and she was so angry in her teens because she wasn't understood and she was jealous her brother got more attention and more understanding so she took it all out on him because he got his way and she didn't. Even as an adult she would still try and get help through therapy and none of the therapists even suspected autism. She did get the anxiety label and was on meds for it so it made her outbursts less and her having her meltdowns. It was hard being around her during those times I used to just run from her and hide in my room. I don't think I would be able to handle having a partner like that. My dad said it was very hard and he got the abuse but at least she didn't go after us. She directed her anger on objects and would slam things and run to her room. I can remember the time she was learning breathing exercises but she didn't find it working but that was because they didn't know what she had so they didn't know what was causing her outbursts, they said it was the anxiety but they didn't know what was causing it."
www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=44419&hl=
"Being incontinent, I don't have a choice. It's nice my husband does it every morning for me but I am still wet when I get out of bed. But when I am on my own, I have to do it myself. It's in my routine, get up, get changed and do my computer and then go get my son up for school and then do breakfast. I get up pretty early and only have fifteen minutes of computer time. I wouldn't have to get up as early if I wasn't IC to change my diaper so I can do the computer. I still limit my fluids past six so I am not peeing as much at night. It's bad if I am thirsty and I can't drink anything or it's waking up with a possible leak. I prefer thick diapers at night and I don't like to change in the middle of the night either or wake my daddy up to do it. He is nice to help me but he always sleeps through it. But I don't change my diaper often at night."
www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=44451
"I would just tell them I am medically incontinent."
www.adisc.org/forum/adult-babies-littles/86850-i-just-found-out-my-friend-potential-abdl.html
"It can happen. The same happened with me. I met someone and it turned out he was into this too but he was a daddy and he wanted a babygirl. But he didn't think it would be possible because the chances were slim. But we both lucked out."
www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=33737&hl=
"Just beautiful. I wish it were longer so I would know more about the characters, her age for one and his age. Also if she and him stick together and have a relationship."
What if Natalie wrote this blog entry:
Title: My step son knows of my AB side
"So today I decided to wear this pink outfit, it’s one piece with pants and straps that go over my shoulders and I was wearing a pink, purple, and green colored AB sweatshirt. Luckily it doesn’t have snaps in the middle of my pink pants. I was in the kitchen cleaning when my step son decided to drop by for a visit. He walked right in and saw me in my outfit. I was mortified but he thought it was cute and asked me where I got it. I told him his dad got it for me from online somewhere. He said it looked like something a toddler would wear. I thought "it is” but didn’t say it out loud. Then he said “What is it with you and all those cute outfits?”
I say “It’s just one of my quirks, I like cute clothes.”
He then told me he has seen me in sleepers and seen my other cute pajamas and my other cute clothes with snaps in the middle and he also saw that show called 15 Stone Baby and then asked if I was one of them and if that is what I do because of my medical condition.
I freeze and think of a lie and then he says “I have also seen your dummy and you have those babyish nappies with cute things on them.”
Then I told him it’s how I cope.
Then he said something shocking, he told me all those people on the show needed help to work out whatever issues they have because they feel the need to be babies just because of a bad childhood they had or because they can’t deal with all the stress of their adult lives and I should look into getting counseling. I asked him did his mum say that, what has she told him about it and he said she said it’s all sick and no one wants a baby and they need a psychiatrist. I told him his mother is wrong and she doesn’t understand it and it’s not something that goes away. Some people just have childish personalities and they use the adult baby side for it and he said why do they need cots and dummies and bottles and high chairs and a carer and big baby clothes. Why do I need to do it for my medical condition. Isn’t having his dad enough and him? This being an awkward thing to talk about with a minor I tell him “it’s complicated and it’s not something I expect anyone to understand” and to talk to his dad about it.
So I stayed in my AB outfit for the rest of the time and my cousin thought it was cute and her kids liked it too and thought nothing else of it except “I like your outfit” and her youngest liked the colors on my shirt. Then daddy came home late and I was in my AB pajamas by then. I am sure his son asked him a bunch of questions about it because they were alone for a while. He figured me out and doesn’t seem to care. At least he doesn’t think my incontinence is fake or that I made myself that way. Now I hope he won’t think everything I do is AB like my ex thought."
"Things had to be "dumbed down" for me as well. Math was dropped for me in high school because I wasn't learning it or grasping it so they gave me different math than the math other kids in my grade were doing. I did learn to balance a checkbook and write checks and it didn't take me long to learn it at all. I was able to remember how to do it. I also can't even help my step son with his homework because it's too hard and I still feel stupid sometimes and I can't cook, only simple things like pasta or eggs or pancakes or cookies and cake using the mix, because I cannot understand the directions and I still can't do fractions and I never got a college degree because of my learning disability so I am limited to uneducated jobs and it makes finding employment for me tough. I also can't even remember how to do something that isn't in my routine and I need to be shown how again. This pisses some people off. I am also a hands on learner so I cannot be told to do things and then be expected to do it without a walk through. You cannot tell me to sweep the floor and then expect me to do it. I need more direction. Tell me what floors to sweep, how hard is that?
My husband tells me he often has to rephrase things for me or remind me to do things because I tend to forget. I will write stuff down and hang it somewhere where I can see it. My husband also does it for me too. I couldn't get a job as a cashier because of my math skills. I was given a worksheet to do and I found it easy but had little difficulty with some of the problems. I thought machines had calculators on them. I also feel I can do anything if people will let me. I can read and write well, I can drive and use my feet. I know numbers and basic math. People have a hard time believing I had help through school and had the IEP and had a tutor and went to a special school for learning disorders because they think I am smart. I have gotten at my old work, "Why don't you go to college? You're smart." I know people with LDs have gone to college but I had troubles in everything in school. Then it was easier when I went to my new school because I had more help then in school. I was also assumed to be stupid by kids and retarded."
www.adisc.org/forum/greetings-introductions/86883-hello-im-james-i-m-fully-bowel-urinary-ic-i-need-ur-help-choosing-new-diaper.html
"I have been incontinent for 22 years and I never had to carry a pad with me everywhere I go. I have always used a good diaper. You need to find a better diaper product to use. If you're are leaking all the time, it's because they are not the right diapers for you, you need something better. Perhaps a Tena Maxi Plus or Abena M4 or Molicare Super Plus. Anything that holds a lot. Tena Maxi is more discreet because they are thin but hold a lot. I have also used plastic pants for extra protection because leaks still do occur when i don't change soon enough and it's hard to tell when I should do it. I just prefer ones that hold a lot so I don't have to worry about it. I also like a thick diaper because it always assures me I am protected and I don't mind the cushion padding. I find it to be comfortable."
www.adisc.org/forum/diaper-talk/86565-medical-supply-companies-ab-dl-2.html
"Back in the days I used to get "How do I become incontinent?" and ask me what is the best way they can do it and they would also tell me how lucky I am to live like a real baby in them. It used to bother me because they had no idea what it's like to need to wear them. I also think now if anyone asks me how I became incontinent, they are just trying to see how they can be incontinent. Unless it's a vanilla asking it, I will gladly tell them how it happened but not a AB/DL I don't know well. Unless I know they don't want to be IC. I just try to be careful who I tell.
I wonder now whenever I buy some at the shop, if anyone there is going to think I am a AB/DL because of my young age. I don't look disabled either."
www.adisc.org/forum/diaper-talk/85581-what-your-best-worst-diapered-experience.html
"Well gosh darn, I don't think I have a best diaper experience because I need to wear them. I would say my best ones are always being protected from my own accidents.
My worst diaper experience, being made fun of about it in school and the leaks and blow outs and messing at the wrong times and wetting and not always being able to change or running out which is very rare."
"I think my best diaper experience would be when my daddy took me out for the day and we went to the park together and we had our food packed for a picnic and my diaper bag. I pooped and told him I did a poo poo and he decides to change me. He decided to do it in the park and I was not comfortable with it but he told me he will find a private spot to do it where there won't be any people and he took me to where there were lot of bushes around and he lied out a blanket and had me lie on it and he took out my diaper supplies and put the underpad under me and I had my dress pulled up and he started to change me. I kept my eyes closed because it was so embarrassing and I didn't want anyone to see and he assured me no one will see us unless they have a pair of binoculars or walk up to us. Then he put a fresh diaper on me and pulled my dress down and we both lied down together. It wasn't so bad and no one ever said anything and he told me no one saw us.
Or my other best diaper experience would be when my cousin put one of mine on and she wore it and used it. But she decided it wasn't her thing."
www.adisc.org/forum/diaper-talk/86862-where-do-you-buy-your-diapers.html
"Medical supply store here and I had gotten diapers from Boots and they work fine but aren't my best. I also get them online like places like ebay or Cuddlz or abdl factory, and I get my main ones through NHS."
fetlife.com/groups/1733/group_posts/5672023 A question for littles/ageplayers
"Why do I like to be a little or ageplayer whatever you want to call it, I find the adult life stressful and I find it comforting to be a little girl and it takes the stress off me. I still have my adult life, I am a parent, I clean, I take care of myself and my son and watch my cousin's kids or my little brother."
fetlife.com/groups/1147/group_posts/3059039 Littles and Daddies getting married
"My daddy and I have been married for two and been together officially for four years. He actually asked me out of the blue one day "Do you want to get married?" Then he said he didn't mean right this instant because of course you have to plan it before it happens. It meant a lot to him and since I wanted to be with him and don't plan on leaving him or going back to my home country, we got married. It was just our parents and immediate families and first relatives. I am his second wife but his first little girl. He's happier with me. We didn't have a fancy wedding. No limos or fancy wedding dress. We didn't have a band or DJs. We just used our own songs and had our own stereo and speakers. Someone on my husband's side has those speakers and brought them there and everyone brought their CDs for us to play for everyone. You can say we were cheap lol. My daddy is happy being married to me and feels closer."
fetlife.com/groups/336/group_posts/5666731 Has anyone ended up going 24/7 and then got sick of the fetish
"I have to wear them 24/7 so I can never get sick of it but I do get sick of diapers. I always have to change them and clean myself up from it and I hate getting rashes, not fun when you are incontinent. I often don't pay attention to what's in my diaper so I am wet without knowing it. Then I feel damp and I have no memory of how many times I peed it. Then it leaks. I try to stick to a changing schedule but it varies because it depends what I drink and how much fluids I had. I know pop does not go well with it or alcohol. I am not much of a drinker anyway and have only been drunk once. Gosh I went through so many diapers that night and I was too drunk to do it myself so someone else had to change them for me and it was so embarrassing when I found out. If i had the option to quit wearing them and could magically get my control back without any possible side affects, I probably wouldn't wear them for a while. My husband would have to diaper me whenever he wants. I also wonder if I would not be into AB/DL because I got my control back. Then my daddy would basically lose his baby girl and only have a wife. I think I would still be his little girl sometimes just to make him happy and happily use the diapers too while playing."
www.wrongplanet.net/posts262224-start15.html
"I was friends with a 39 year old mother when I was 15. I was in a relationship with her son and she had Asperger's too as did he. We had things in common and she was friends with my mother too but she was less affected by it than my mom was. Then we lost contact when her son broke up with me and her and my mom didn't stay in touch. I can understand why she didn't with me because I was too young for her and underage and it wouldn't have been appropriate. She thought my mom was annoying according to her son and no wonder she can't get along with people and why she has no friends. She always tolerated her and bent over backwards because she was milder. That's probably why she didn't stay friends with her and I remember they both got in a fight once too while her son and I were still together and I told her my ex told me his mom thinks she is annoying. Then she said she didn't need that kind of friend then if she is always annoyed by her."
www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=28957&hl=
"I have worn while swimming but never while showering or taking a bath. It gets uncomfortable after a while when it gets filled with so much water. The diaper just keeps on absorbing it and doesn't stop. Then pretty soon it just pops open and all the insides gets all over. You wouldn't want that in the pool and then everyone sees you wear diapers. But I wear swim diapers. If I poop in them, I rinse them out in the shower or toilet and come back out."
www.adisc.org/forum/diaper-talk/86927-diapers-having-children.html
"I have two boys, a son and step son. They both know I wear them. My step says nothing about it hardly and my autistic son says nothing. Does it feel weird to wear them? Not really. I felt that way as a kid because I wanted children and I thought it would be weird to wear them with kids but now I don't feel that way anymore. But my son did out my medical condition in school. He drew a picture of his family and he drew me in my diaper and I had some explaining to do when his teacher asked me about it. I never kept it hidden from him. I don't hide it from my step son either but I don't go out of my way flaunting it."
www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=44447&hl=
"I wish I was in the 90% because I always had to wake up in wet beds and I had to learn to sleep on my back. I wear double protection at night, a thick diaper and plastic pants and I have a bed pad to protect my sheets."
fetlife.com/groups/18060/group_posts/5673806 Strangest things school teachers said or did
*Natalie talks about Mrs. Kink*
I had a sub teacher who was mean to her students. She liked to make us suffer and threaten us and she threatened to tell everyone about my incontinence, she once took a toy from a student and tossed it on the ground breaking it, she liked to make fun of us thinking it would get us to write better on the board, she didn't like any movement in our chairs or doodling and she wanted us to sit like zombies, she was always slamming the ruler on our desks, she claimed I punched her when I didn't, she liked to humiliate her students, she was like Mrs. Trunchbull except she wasn't as mean like the character was. But she was the reality version of her. Then when she felt she was losing control of her class, she decided to switch me from her class saying I would be better in a different class and I was having troubles in her room and with other students. I was confused about her niceness all of a sudden and then I figured out she only did that to get rid of me because I was causing her to lose control of her students since they all knew she had no way of sending them to another school or to jail and she can't tell other students about her students medical conditions. It wasn't long before my mom came to my school to have a meeting with her and the next day she was gone.
*Then she talks about her kindergarten teacher*
I had a teacher in kindergarten who didn't like me. She didn't like me playing alone or how I played with puzzles and me looking at the lights or ceiling, playing with paper clips or rocking back and forth or smelling things. She would also pull my hair sometimes and grab me hard her nails were digging into my skin and she liked to exclude me from class activities. All she got was a suspension and I was moved to a different kindergarten class.
In my junior year of high school, one of my teachers was caught having sex in the janitor's closet with a student and she was sacked and charges were made even though 16 is the age of consent but the kid was under age and the teacher was more than 60 months older than him."
When I was taking a fun class in college, my art teacher decided to talk to me after class and I happened to stay behind because I was slow in cleaning up my mess and he started to talk to me differently and putting his arm around me and rubbing me and it felt nice. Then he tried to invite me to his house and told me he will show me different ways of having love. Luckily I knew then and I told him no way and it was illegal for him to date his own students and have sex and it can get him fired. Then he told me if only they know about it and if I don't tell anyone. But I wasn't even attracted to this guy and he was way too old for me so I told him that and he kept trying to pressure me. Then another teacher walked in and started talking to him and I finished cleaning up and left and I never went back to that class again. I quit going. I told my parents and I was told to file a complaint about it to get my dad's money back so I did and I don't know what happened to him. He did get refunded. I wonder how the teacher would have reacted if he discovered my diaper."
www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=44452&hl=
"My nine year old son told people at school about my diapers by drawing me in them and my 12 year old step son would tell strangers whenever they wouldn't let me use the toilet to change or use the family toilet or the time I needed paper towels because I had used up all my wipes and toilet paper cleaning up my messy accident. I have gotten better at telling them about my medical condition when need to. They will never see me again. My husband first spilled the beans to his son about my diapers and he took it well."
fetlife.com/groups/1733/group_posts/5663211 Am I the only one?
"That was how my daddy found me. He wanted a ABDL girl but he wasn't looking for one because he knew the chances were slim and then he met me and I had no idea he was one and he had no idea about me either. We started out as friends online after meeting in person and then I moved over here and we started to date and then I told him about my incontinence and he took it well acting like it was normal, then I introduced him to ab/dl and it turned out he was into it too but he was a daddy and he always wanted a baby girl and told me immature women turned him on and childlike ones. Since I can be immature and I am considered childlike, it worked out. I can be myself and he won't see me as a baby all the time. He finds some things I do as cute. I found a good guy too by not looking. Sometimes that is what you have to do to find your man/woman.
I did have another daddy and he was a vanilla. He was fine with my medical condition and he even changed me and bought me diapers, including printed ones. He was also fine with me until I introduced him to AB/DL and asked him to be my daddy and he was open about it and I had to show him how to do it and then a few weeks later he decided it wasn't his thing and decided to dump me because he saw everything about me as a baby and said he thought he had a girlfriend, not a baby. But he wasn't the right guy for me then so when I met my current daddy, I introduced it to him a lot sooner so I wouldn't waste my time again with the wrong guy and I was worried for a while he would get sick of me and dump me too thinking everything I do is AB related. He wanted a woman too, not a 24/7 baby. I have liked daddy figures as long as I can remember. I discovered it when I was in high school when I realized I liked men who take care of women and keep them safe and comfortable.
Yeah I may be a bitch in my profile but that is because I am sick of creeps who want me to be their mommy and not take no for an answer or only want to talk about my medical condition and want to know how they can lose bladder control and asking me how I got mine. I am a real mommy, not a mommy. I am a baby girl, not a mommy. I am a real caretaker, not a kink caretaker. I also do not role play. You will turn into a bitch too if you got so sick of being pressured and men not respecting you. Just try pretending to be a woman for once and see how many messages you get from guys. Yes I wear diapers and I am incontinent and I am a AB/DL but I do not want to be seen as for my diapers or baby girl. I also have it in my writings too where I rant more about this. But trust me, if you talk to me like a normal person than about diapers only or trying to find a mommy, you will see I am not so bitchy. If you aren't one of those creepers, you will be just fine. The worst I can do is not respond to you at all."
www.wrongplanet.net/postt263312.html
"I don't think it was any better for people on the spectrum. My mom was born in '57 and doctors thought she had brain damage and mental retardation and told my grandmother to just put her in an institution. No one touched the autism label and her younger brother was diagnosed but not her and at the time the refrigerator mother theory was going around. Though one teacher thought when she was about eight she was autistic but my grandma wouldn't go there. She and her brother were both different. Also treatment for special needs was bad then so my mom got some of it in special ed and she was kept away from normal kids. She got other labels in her teens like schizophrenia and she was also labeled as having a learning issue. It was noted she had cognitive issues and problems with socialization and communication and with her coordination and motor skills. No one understood why she would lash out at people or have sudden outbursts and she was so angry in her teens because she wasn't understood and she was jealous her brother got more attention and more understanding so she took it all out on him because he got his way and she didn't. Even as an adult she would still try and get help through therapy and none of the therapists even suspected autism. She did get the anxiety label and was on meds for it so it made her outbursts less and her having her meltdowns. It was hard being around her during those times I used to just run from her and hide in my room. I don't think I would be able to handle having a partner like that. My dad said it was very hard and he got the abuse but at least she didn't go after us. She directed her anger on objects and would slam things and run to her room. I can remember the time she was learning breathing exercises but she didn't find it working but that was because they didn't know what she had so they didn't know what was causing her outbursts, they said it was the anxiety but they didn't know what was causing it."
www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=44419&hl=
"Being incontinent, I don't have a choice. It's nice my husband does it every morning for me but I am still wet when I get out of bed. But when I am on my own, I have to do it myself. It's in my routine, get up, get changed and do my computer and then go get my son up for school and then do breakfast. I get up pretty early and only have fifteen minutes of computer time. I wouldn't have to get up as early if I wasn't IC to change my diaper so I can do the computer. I still limit my fluids past six so I am not peeing as much at night. It's bad if I am thirsty and I can't drink anything or it's waking up with a possible leak. I prefer thick diapers at night and I don't like to change in the middle of the night either or wake my daddy up to do it. He is nice to help me but he always sleeps through it. But I don't change my diaper often at night."
www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=44451
"I would just tell them I am medically incontinent."
www.adisc.org/forum/adult-babies-littles/86850-i-just-found-out-my-friend-potential-abdl.html
"It can happen. The same happened with me. I met someone and it turned out he was into this too but he was a daddy and he wanted a babygirl. But he didn't think it would be possible because the chances were slim. But we both lucked out."
www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=33737&hl=
"Just beautiful. I wish it were longer so I would know more about the characters, her age for one and his age. Also if she and him stick together and have a relationship."
What if Natalie wrote this blog entry:
Title: My step son knows of my AB side
"So today I decided to wear this pink outfit, it’s one piece with pants and straps that go over my shoulders and I was wearing a pink, purple, and green colored AB sweatshirt. Luckily it doesn’t have snaps in the middle of my pink pants. I was in the kitchen cleaning when my step son decided to drop by for a visit. He walked right in and saw me in my outfit. I was mortified but he thought it was cute and asked me where I got it. I told him his dad got it for me from online somewhere. He said it looked like something a toddler would wear. I thought "it is” but didn’t say it out loud. Then he said “What is it with you and all those cute outfits?”
I say “It’s just one of my quirks, I like cute clothes.”
He then told me he has seen me in sleepers and seen my other cute pajamas and my other cute clothes with snaps in the middle and he also saw that show called 15 Stone Baby and then asked if I was one of them and if that is what I do because of my medical condition.
I freeze and think of a lie and then he says “I have also seen your dummy and you have those babyish nappies with cute things on them.”
Then I told him it’s how I cope.
Then he said something shocking, he told me all those people on the show needed help to work out whatever issues they have because they feel the need to be babies just because of a bad childhood they had or because they can’t deal with all the stress of their adult lives and I should look into getting counseling. I asked him did his mum say that, what has she told him about it and he said she said it’s all sick and no one wants a baby and they need a psychiatrist. I told him his mother is wrong and she doesn’t understand it and it’s not something that goes away. Some people just have childish personalities and they use the adult baby side for it and he said why do they need cots and dummies and bottles and high chairs and a carer and big baby clothes. Why do I need to do it for my medical condition. Isn’t having his dad enough and him? This being an awkward thing to talk about with a minor I tell him “it’s complicated and it’s not something I expect anyone to understand” and to talk to his dad about it.
So I stayed in my AB outfit for the rest of the time and my cousin thought it was cute and her kids liked it too and thought nothing else of it except “I like your outfit” and her youngest liked the colors on my shirt. Then daddy came home late and I was in my AB pajamas by then. I am sure his son asked him a bunch of questions about it because they were alone for a while. He figured me out and doesn’t seem to care. At least he doesn’t think my incontinence is fake or that I made myself that way. Now I hope he won’t think everything I do is AB like my ex thought."