Post by Bad Beth on Apr 11, 2014 16:10:51 GMT
fetlife.com/groups/336/group_posts/5254479
4/11/14
"I started out as DL because of my incontinence. I hated having to wear them and I hated peeing in them and pooping but I had no choice or it's wet and messy pants and I hated getting that on my clothes. Then i got used to it and it didn't bother me anymore and then I started to like it and like the feeling of a wet diaper and the mess pushing on my skin. Then I discovered the AB/DL community and learned people who like diapers were called diaper lovers and I eventually learned I was one too because I liked wearing them and it was confusing for a while because I had to wear them, I didn't choose it and I liked them because they kept me protected from my accidents and I felt cleaner being in one and it's not like I chose to pee in them or mess to enjoy it. I had no interest in the whole AB thing because I thought you had to do it full time because that is what babies do and the stories I had read online. Then one day I was at a store and I had my cash with me and I decided to get a pacifier so I bought a pack of two and I had always put stuff in my mouth so I got a pacifier and used it at night and it was wonderful having something in my mouth. Then soon I had a bottle and would drink out of it privately when I could. It slowly led to ABism and then I placed in a adult sized crib when I was 19 by a guy who liked to baby girls and I liked sleeping in it and liked the baby treatment but we were never a couple because he wasn't right for me, we didn't have things in common except diapers and adult baby. Then after that I would say I was an AB and now my husband is my daddy and we don't do the baby thing 24/7 but I am his little girl 24/7 but he doesn't need to get me a nanny lol because I am an adult and I can be left alone and go out alone. I still use my pacifier off and on and wear my AB pajamas or childlike ones which are just store bought ones and I wear printed diapers or I just wear a Tena Maxi. I also have printed plastic pants and diaper covers and my husband does change me often. I am sure our kids know but have never said anything. Him going in the changing room with me or in the family room or in our bedroom, they might know. We also remember to lock the door when he does it since my son walked in on me once having mine changed and showed no reaction. Plus my husband has said he was going to help me get cleaned up and his son is smart and so is mine so I am sure it's not rocket science."
www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=43081&hl=
4/12/14
"I will never have surgery. Until they come up with an invention that will magically fix incontinence without any side affects or any risks, I will do it. Not that I don't like wearing them, being incontinent isn't always fun and I would rather have control over when to wear one and when to poop or pee. My husband jokes how his little girl doesn't want to be potty trained and she likes her diapers too much but that's okay, just take my time even if it takes me until age 50. I just accept wearing them and being incontinent and I still get moments where I wish I wasn't IC when I end up in a inconvenient situation such as no place to change or no place to clean up my messy accident and my husband can't help me with it and if I wish to travel, I have to worry about supplying enough diapers and knowing if I will be able to get more if we run out. They just take up room in the car. I keep a few in the car now for emergencies because I once arrived at my son's school in a messy diaper because I had done it on the way there and I was not going to turn around and go home and get cleaned up and then be late so I arrived in my mess and I am sure people smelled it since I hadn't been taking any odor pills. My husband found out I did that and wasn't happy with me and I had forgotten to bring extras with so he made me put a few in the pocket of the seat so I can't forget and won't have an excuse. I have gotten used to the smell it doesn't bother me anymore if anyone notices it. They won't see me again. Believe me, I had a hard time with it too when I started out wearing them and felt like a big baby and kids at school and in my neighborhood made sure of that and I didn't like having accidents in them and I got used to it after a while and I did try catheters as an adult but didn't like it. I prefer diapers as my tool for IC and I prefer the ones that hold a lot rather they are thick or thin. I don't use cheap diapers because they suck and don't even hold one accident for me. That was something I had to deal with as a kid when my parents had to find the right product for me and it used to be I would get changed after one accident and sometimes I couldn't be changed after having one so I was left to sit in my mess and I would get told I would have to get used to it and at least it's not on my clothes or on the seat. I also hated having to leave just to get my diapers changed so I started to teach myself to get used to it by not leaving and just staying in the same diaper until I had wet it couple more times or messed. But changing them was a pain because I could never do it right until my mid teens when my mother decided I should learn and do it myself because she won't be around forever to help me with it. It took practice and I used to do it at home only and then I learned to do it standing against the wall to hold the diaper in place as I put it on. I remember how frustrating it was because I would put them on too tight or rip the plastic because I had it on too loose and my mother kept making me do it on my own and still helped me if I needed it and had me do the steps. Then it got easy and I couldn't believe I would find it so hard to put one on. I can change standing no problem but the only challenge is peeing as I do it so the reason why I take everything off except for everything above my waist. I sometimes wonder if coordination problems had anything to do with it since I did have balance issues and was in therapy for it and my handwriting used to be terrible but it was still readable. I supposedly had motor skills issues too despite being able to tie my shoes and zip zippers and button buttons. I could also ride a bike."
fetlife.com/groups/336/group_posts/5260661
4/12/14
"I am not a baby full time and also don't understand it either. To me it's being lazy and I am a mother and a step mom and I do housework and I never wanted to not have have control. How could anyone live that way? I do wear diapers 24/7 but I am incontinent so that is why and my husband is fine with it. But what does my daddy (husband) get in return from me, sex and being an adult.
I have met guys online who wanted a mommy and were exactly like that. I never wanted a baby either and I wanted a guy. My daddy doesn't want a full time baby either. I did know one guy online who was so far into this, it jeopardize our friendship and he knew I wasn't a mommy and didn't like role playing but he kept bringing it up about wanting a mommy and finally I gave in and did it under my own terms and then when I decided to quit, he got mad at me and called me dishonest. He never took no for an answer. He was just pushy and needy and I finally quit talking to him. he would also pretend to actually be a little boy and it was annoying because I didn't want to explain everything to him and he wouldn't use Google to look stuff up and he still followed his mother's rules despite living on his own and he would ask about sex terms but yet not want to know about them because "I'm too little to know that stuff." It just peeves me when people try and role play and you don't even want to play, you just want a normal conversation.
I like being babied but I get into that mode when I am over whelmed and stressed out or depressed and my husband will have baby time with me so he will give me a bottle or a pacifier or a sippy cup but everything else you can pretty much do in a normal relationship like rubbing and cuddling, holding your woman, tucking them in, changing their diaper if they are incontinent, taking them out. My husband has put kid shows on for me but I like them too as an adult and always had, even as a child. He has also put me down for a nap when I was tired and I would say that was our few minutes of baby time. I find baby toys to be boring and my daddy doesn't make me play with them thank god. I would say my role playing age is two or three years."
She ees my post and says:
"OMG did we know the same person"
www.adisc.org/forum/diaper-talk/81936-awkward-moments-3.html
4/12/14
"I've walked around in diapers in front of my family with nothing over them. That happened at home sometimes and when we were staying in hotels. I have also had my diaper changed in front of my sister because she would come in my room and then in our room when we shared it. That was normal in our family."
www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=37021&hl=
3/9/13
"When it's hot out, I will sleep only in my bra and diaper and socks and I sleep under a sheet than a blanket. But I sleep in my pajamas."
www.wrongplanet.net/postxf237304-0-15.html
8/25/13
Dad, OCD and a recovered alcoholic. He likes things organized and neat and growing up, our home was like a display in the magazine because my mom kept it neat. He also made all the money and paid the bills and handled the finances and took care of all of us including my mother. He also had a temper if he hadn't had a drink and he and mom would toss things at each other when they fight but not every time. He also had a hard time keeping friends and when he made some, they were always the wrong ones. That was how he met my mother and kept her. My dad would sometimes complain about not having a normal woman and not being able to do things men can do with their wives and sometimes say she doesn't care about anyone, he said the same to me too and to my little brother and thought she was too soft with us.
Mom, autistic and has anxiety and PTSD. She lived by routine, didn't like change or surprises, couldn't handle money or understand it, had a aggressive personality so she argued with people and had to be right and wasn't afraid to speak up, her mom us the same way but it doesn't affect her like it does with mom because she can control it and knows when to stop, hated crowds and couldn't go to places that were way too crowded, couldn't have a conversation with her really but she was a great listener and when she talked, she talked and no one else could get the chance to speak, she also didn't like touch unless she wanted it, she didn't have any friends really but got along with her family but not with my dad's. She would also get mad at us and start screaming if my brother, sister, and I were too loud and she would separate us if we couldn't play quietly and I will never forget when she threatened she will make us play on the front porch if we can't leave each other alone and quit fighting. It was raining outside. She would also pull the car over if we were too loud and didn't be quiet, same as if we fought. She also had her meltdowns and outbursts and my dad had to restrain her whenever she would start attacking him, she had to have lists so my dad would make them for her so she could get through her day, she was known to be weird and retarded by kids in my neighborhood. I can remember one parent asking me "is your mom slow?" and I thought it was a strange question because a grown up had never asked me such a thing, only kids. Even my dad said she was the one who is slow because she asked such a rude question a kid would ask if it was not her intent to be mean. But she was still a good mom and she took us to our appointments and cooked and took care of us kids and she was tough with us and a tough mother. My sister hates her though but none of us other kids do. She wants nothing to do with her either so her kids have never even seen their grandmother (mom). I haven't seen them either and they are all under age five and so close to age. Our mom has given up and doesn't care anymore and let's her live on her life and she lives on hers accepting she has three kids from our dad. She says it's her problem but my sister says it's our mom's and her not caring just proves her point. Does she not know it's because she had tried and gave up because she won't be in her life or understand her so Mom decided she was done with her and she can't force her to love her again or like her and it's her decision? :Hits head on wall:"
www.adisc.org/forum/off-topic/84283-what-country-do-you-come.html
4/13/14
"America. If I had grown up in England and then moved over to America, I would be saying I am from England because my dad is English."
4/11/14
"I started out as DL because of my incontinence. I hated having to wear them and I hated peeing in them and pooping but I had no choice or it's wet and messy pants and I hated getting that on my clothes. Then i got used to it and it didn't bother me anymore and then I started to like it and like the feeling of a wet diaper and the mess pushing on my skin. Then I discovered the AB/DL community and learned people who like diapers were called diaper lovers and I eventually learned I was one too because I liked wearing them and it was confusing for a while because I had to wear them, I didn't choose it and I liked them because they kept me protected from my accidents and I felt cleaner being in one and it's not like I chose to pee in them or mess to enjoy it. I had no interest in the whole AB thing because I thought you had to do it full time because that is what babies do and the stories I had read online. Then one day I was at a store and I had my cash with me and I decided to get a pacifier so I bought a pack of two and I had always put stuff in my mouth so I got a pacifier and used it at night and it was wonderful having something in my mouth. Then soon I had a bottle and would drink out of it privately when I could. It slowly led to ABism and then I placed in a adult sized crib when I was 19 by a guy who liked to baby girls and I liked sleeping in it and liked the baby treatment but we were never a couple because he wasn't right for me, we didn't have things in common except diapers and adult baby. Then after that I would say I was an AB and now my husband is my daddy and we don't do the baby thing 24/7 but I am his little girl 24/7 but he doesn't need to get me a nanny lol because I am an adult and I can be left alone and go out alone. I still use my pacifier off and on and wear my AB pajamas or childlike ones which are just store bought ones and I wear printed diapers or I just wear a Tena Maxi. I also have printed plastic pants and diaper covers and my husband does change me often. I am sure our kids know but have never said anything. Him going in the changing room with me or in the family room or in our bedroom, they might know. We also remember to lock the door when he does it since my son walked in on me once having mine changed and showed no reaction. Plus my husband has said he was going to help me get cleaned up and his son is smart and so is mine so I am sure it's not rocket science."
www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=43081&hl=
4/12/14
"I will never have surgery. Until they come up with an invention that will magically fix incontinence without any side affects or any risks, I will do it. Not that I don't like wearing them, being incontinent isn't always fun and I would rather have control over when to wear one and when to poop or pee. My husband jokes how his little girl doesn't want to be potty trained and she likes her diapers too much but that's okay, just take my time even if it takes me until age 50. I just accept wearing them and being incontinent and I still get moments where I wish I wasn't IC when I end up in a inconvenient situation such as no place to change or no place to clean up my messy accident and my husband can't help me with it and if I wish to travel, I have to worry about supplying enough diapers and knowing if I will be able to get more if we run out. They just take up room in the car. I keep a few in the car now for emergencies because I once arrived at my son's school in a messy diaper because I had done it on the way there and I was not going to turn around and go home and get cleaned up and then be late so I arrived in my mess and I am sure people smelled it since I hadn't been taking any odor pills. My husband found out I did that and wasn't happy with me and I had forgotten to bring extras with so he made me put a few in the pocket of the seat so I can't forget and won't have an excuse. I have gotten used to the smell it doesn't bother me anymore if anyone notices it. They won't see me again. Believe me, I had a hard time with it too when I started out wearing them and felt like a big baby and kids at school and in my neighborhood made sure of that and I didn't like having accidents in them and I got used to it after a while and I did try catheters as an adult but didn't like it. I prefer diapers as my tool for IC and I prefer the ones that hold a lot rather they are thick or thin. I don't use cheap diapers because they suck and don't even hold one accident for me. That was something I had to deal with as a kid when my parents had to find the right product for me and it used to be I would get changed after one accident and sometimes I couldn't be changed after having one so I was left to sit in my mess and I would get told I would have to get used to it and at least it's not on my clothes or on the seat. I also hated having to leave just to get my diapers changed so I started to teach myself to get used to it by not leaving and just staying in the same diaper until I had wet it couple more times or messed. But changing them was a pain because I could never do it right until my mid teens when my mother decided I should learn and do it myself because she won't be around forever to help me with it. It took practice and I used to do it at home only and then I learned to do it standing against the wall to hold the diaper in place as I put it on. I remember how frustrating it was because I would put them on too tight or rip the plastic because I had it on too loose and my mother kept making me do it on my own and still helped me if I needed it and had me do the steps. Then it got easy and I couldn't believe I would find it so hard to put one on. I can change standing no problem but the only challenge is peeing as I do it so the reason why I take everything off except for everything above my waist. I sometimes wonder if coordination problems had anything to do with it since I did have balance issues and was in therapy for it and my handwriting used to be terrible but it was still readable. I supposedly had motor skills issues too despite being able to tie my shoes and zip zippers and button buttons. I could also ride a bike."
fetlife.com/groups/336/group_posts/5260661
4/12/14
"I am not a baby full time and also don't understand it either. To me it's being lazy and I am a mother and a step mom and I do housework and I never wanted to not have have control. How could anyone live that way? I do wear diapers 24/7 but I am incontinent so that is why and my husband is fine with it. But what does my daddy (husband) get in return from me, sex and being an adult.
I have met guys online who wanted a mommy and were exactly like that. I never wanted a baby either and I wanted a guy. My daddy doesn't want a full time baby either. I did know one guy online who was so far into this, it jeopardize our friendship and he knew I wasn't a mommy and didn't like role playing but he kept bringing it up about wanting a mommy and finally I gave in and did it under my own terms and then when I decided to quit, he got mad at me and called me dishonest. He never took no for an answer. He was just pushy and needy and I finally quit talking to him. he would also pretend to actually be a little boy and it was annoying because I didn't want to explain everything to him and he wouldn't use Google to look stuff up and he still followed his mother's rules despite living on his own and he would ask about sex terms but yet not want to know about them because "I'm too little to know that stuff." It just peeves me when people try and role play and you don't even want to play, you just want a normal conversation.
I like being babied but I get into that mode when I am over whelmed and stressed out or depressed and my husband will have baby time with me so he will give me a bottle or a pacifier or a sippy cup but everything else you can pretty much do in a normal relationship like rubbing and cuddling, holding your woman, tucking them in, changing their diaper if they are incontinent, taking them out. My husband has put kid shows on for me but I like them too as an adult and always had, even as a child. He has also put me down for a nap when I was tired and I would say that was our few minutes of baby time. I find baby toys to be boring and my daddy doesn't make me play with them thank god. I would say my role playing age is two or three years."
She ees my post and says:
"OMG did we know the same person"
www.adisc.org/forum/diaper-talk/81936-awkward-moments-3.html
4/12/14
"I've walked around in diapers in front of my family with nothing over them. That happened at home sometimes and when we were staying in hotels. I have also had my diaper changed in front of my sister because she would come in my room and then in our room when we shared it. That was normal in our family."
www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=37021&hl=
3/9/13
"When it's hot out, I will sleep only in my bra and diaper and socks and I sleep under a sheet than a blanket. But I sleep in my pajamas."
www.wrongplanet.net/postxf237304-0-15.html
8/25/13
Dad, OCD and a recovered alcoholic. He likes things organized and neat and growing up, our home was like a display in the magazine because my mom kept it neat. He also made all the money and paid the bills and handled the finances and took care of all of us including my mother. He also had a temper if he hadn't had a drink and he and mom would toss things at each other when they fight but not every time. He also had a hard time keeping friends and when he made some, they were always the wrong ones. That was how he met my mother and kept her. My dad would sometimes complain about not having a normal woman and not being able to do things men can do with their wives and sometimes say she doesn't care about anyone, he said the same to me too and to my little brother and thought she was too soft with us.
Mom, autistic and has anxiety and PTSD. She lived by routine, didn't like change or surprises, couldn't handle money or understand it, had a aggressive personality so she argued with people and had to be right and wasn't afraid to speak up, her mom us the same way but it doesn't affect her like it does with mom because she can control it and knows when to stop, hated crowds and couldn't go to places that were way too crowded, couldn't have a conversation with her really but she was a great listener and when she talked, she talked and no one else could get the chance to speak, she also didn't like touch unless she wanted it, she didn't have any friends really but got along with her family but not with my dad's. She would also get mad at us and start screaming if my brother, sister, and I were too loud and she would separate us if we couldn't play quietly and I will never forget when she threatened she will make us play on the front porch if we can't leave each other alone and quit fighting. It was raining outside. She would also pull the car over if we were too loud and didn't be quiet, same as if we fought. She also had her meltdowns and outbursts and my dad had to restrain her whenever she would start attacking him, she had to have lists so my dad would make them for her so she could get through her day, she was known to be weird and retarded by kids in my neighborhood. I can remember one parent asking me "is your mom slow?" and I thought it was a strange question because a grown up had never asked me such a thing, only kids. Even my dad said she was the one who is slow because she asked such a rude question a kid would ask if it was not her intent to be mean. But she was still a good mom and she took us to our appointments and cooked and took care of us kids and she was tough with us and a tough mother. My sister hates her though but none of us other kids do. She wants nothing to do with her either so her kids have never even seen their grandmother (mom). I haven't seen them either and they are all under age five and so close to age. Our mom has given up and doesn't care anymore and let's her live on her life and she lives on hers accepting she has three kids from our dad. She says it's her problem but my sister says it's our mom's and her not caring just proves her point. Does she not know it's because she had tried and gave up because she won't be in her life or understand her so Mom decided she was done with her and she can't force her to love her again or like her and it's her decision? :Hits head on wall:"
www.adisc.org/forum/off-topic/84283-what-country-do-you-come.html
4/13/14
"America. If I had grown up in England and then moved over to America, I would be saying I am from England because my dad is English."