Post by Bad Beth on Jun 9, 2014 3:28:04 GMT
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"I don't care anymore if anyone sees me in my diaper. I have gotten dressed and undressed in the locker room out in the open like everyone else and I got looks and I didn't care. I have walked out in my back yard in my diaper. I'm incontinent so that may have something to do with it. I also don't try and hide it anymore either. I still get embarrassed but then I get over it. So far no one has ever given me a hard time about it. However I did get a comment once by a lady while I was getting changed and dressed and she told me "excuse me, would you mind if I ask you something, I am trying to find a better nappy product for someone I care for" and I said sure and she asked me if the diaper I have on was any good and if I know any good products out there and I told her some brands like Molicare, Abena, Attends, Tena, and told her about the Tena I have on. Then she asked me what happened that got me to wear them and I told her car accident and she saw the scar. I also told her about Fabine and Cuddlz but told her they have pictures on them like baby diapers do. She then thanked me."
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"I wore these for a while and I could wear one for hours before taking it off. They are thick but they also hold a lot. I don't care for a big bottom or a camel toe. I wore one on my flight with two boosters and plastic pants and I pooped it twice and the diaper was real heavy and bulky from the pee. Then I had a huge mess to clean up and I wished I had my mother around to do it."
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"I have never gotten that drunk I did stupid shit but I did find out these men who were interested in me took me upstairs and got my clothes off and attempted to have sex with me but my Dad showed up instead and brought me home. I had no memory of any of this or my dad changing me. I woke up in my room and was surprised my diaper lasted me all night with all the drinks I have had."
And she posts on a incontinent board:
incontinentsupport.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=7&t=553&start=20
"I am a AB/DL but that didn't start until my teens. I have been wearing them almost my whole life and I didn't start to accept it until about seven years after the accident. But I still didn't like wearing them and I only wanted to wear a good diaper. Then I came across AB/DL and I envied them. They got to choose to wear them and quit anytime they want and I can never quit unless I want to wet my pants and poop in them and get it all over. But if I could get my continence back, would I quit wearing them? TBH no. I would still wear them sometimes but not all the time. They do come in handy like for movies or long flights or when going out and there are hardly any bathrooms around. Back when I was posting on an incontinent board in high school, our board would get filled with DLs and we called them diaper wannabees. Then I found out the term for it was diaper lover when I discovered the community. I have been told it's not that I like wearing them, I like the comfort and security they give me and allowing me to live a normal stress free life and it's not that I like using them, I just like the work my diaper does for me when I have my accident. Am I a DL? Some have said I am not but I consider myself such. I am long over the stigma and I no longer see them for babies only, I see they are for people with bladder control problems and bowels and bedwetting and I am aware people use them for convenience like for long lines or the New York Times square for the New Year or for truck drivers or jobs that don't allow people to have a potty break until their break. Yes there are some bad apples in the AB/DL community. Diapers have become the norm for me, I think I would feel funny without them. Naked under there I should say.
For me it's for comfort. I can't really explain it."
incontinentsupport.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=7&t=1361
"Shit happened so I am stuck in them. It's just a reminder I survived a car crash and it could have been worse as my parents always said. Yeah IC is a pain because I hate having to change messy ones and I am thankful I have a husband who helps me out with it. Also when I get a rash, that also sucks because I can't air out and I still don't change soon enough. I am thankful I don't have to pay for them but we still pay for the other ones we want. But I have came to a point now where I don't care if anyone finds out I wear them. I feel diapers have become part of me now it would probably feel strange if I didn't need them anymore all of a sudden."
incontinentsupport.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=13&t=510
"I think the positive thing about them is seeing who your true friends are. They also give me a normal life and help keep my pants dry. Bowel IC is a pain though and I have a husband who helps me with it but I am on my own with it when he is away.
My mom however suffered some abuse from day time accidents but never at night. She was a bedwetter and back then all they had was cloth so she wore whatever they were called and some rubber pants and they sure kept the bed dry for her.
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Wow that's crazy several days after this post. I'm at work and I see this mom and her kid and the mom has a bulge around her butt towards her legs.. Incredible. I don't think she was an ab/dl but I was staring.
"That could have been me. If you are in the London area and the mother looked young and so did her kid but not in his teens and not a toddler."
www.adisc.org/forum/adult-baby/85901-what-kind-caretaker-suits-you.html
"My daddy is my caretaker. He is always changing me and gives me baths sometimes and he makes sure I don't stay up too late and I eat right. He also loves me and would never humiliate me or harm me in any way."
"I don't care anymore if anyone sees me in my diaper. I have gotten dressed and undressed in the locker room out in the open like everyone else and I got looks and I didn't care. I have walked out in my back yard in my diaper. I'm incontinent so that may have something to do with it. I also don't try and hide it anymore either. I still get embarrassed but then I get over it. So far no one has ever given me a hard time about it. However I did get a comment once by a lady while I was getting changed and dressed and she told me "excuse me, would you mind if I ask you something, I am trying to find a better nappy product for someone I care for" and I said sure and she asked me if the diaper I have on was any good and if I know any good products out there and I told her some brands like Molicare, Abena, Attends, Tena, and told her about the Tena I have on. Then she asked me what happened that got me to wear them and I told her car accident and she saw the scar. I also told her about Fabine and Cuddlz but told her they have pictures on them like baby diapers do. She then thanked me."
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"I wore these for a while and I could wear one for hours before taking it off. They are thick but they also hold a lot. I don't care for a big bottom or a camel toe. I wore one on my flight with two boosters and plastic pants and I pooped it twice and the diaper was real heavy and bulky from the pee. Then I had a huge mess to clean up and I wished I had my mother around to do it."
www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=43894&hl=
"I have never gotten that drunk I did stupid shit but I did find out these men who were interested in me took me upstairs and got my clothes off and attempted to have sex with me but my Dad showed up instead and brought me home. I had no memory of any of this or my dad changing me. I woke up in my room and was surprised my diaper lasted me all night with all the drinks I have had."
And she posts on a incontinent board:
incontinentsupport.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=7&t=553&start=20
"I am a AB/DL but that didn't start until my teens. I have been wearing them almost my whole life and I didn't start to accept it until about seven years after the accident. But I still didn't like wearing them and I only wanted to wear a good diaper. Then I came across AB/DL and I envied them. They got to choose to wear them and quit anytime they want and I can never quit unless I want to wet my pants and poop in them and get it all over. But if I could get my continence back, would I quit wearing them? TBH no. I would still wear them sometimes but not all the time. They do come in handy like for movies or long flights or when going out and there are hardly any bathrooms around. Back when I was posting on an incontinent board in high school, our board would get filled with DLs and we called them diaper wannabees. Then I found out the term for it was diaper lover when I discovered the community. I have been told it's not that I like wearing them, I like the comfort and security they give me and allowing me to live a normal stress free life and it's not that I like using them, I just like the work my diaper does for me when I have my accident. Am I a DL? Some have said I am not but I consider myself such. I am long over the stigma and I no longer see them for babies only, I see they are for people with bladder control problems and bowels and bedwetting and I am aware people use them for convenience like for long lines or the New York Times square for the New Year or for truck drivers or jobs that don't allow people to have a potty break until their break. Yes there are some bad apples in the AB/DL community. Diapers have become the norm for me, I think I would feel funny without them. Naked under there I should say.
I'm certainly not trying to judge anyone but I don't understand a person who would like to be treated as an infant or toddler because they need to use diapers for incontinence. I couldn't make that leap myself.
To each his own I suppose....
To each his own I suppose....
For me it's for comfort. I can't really explain it."
incontinentsupport.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=7&t=1361
"Shit happened so I am stuck in them. It's just a reminder I survived a car crash and it could have been worse as my parents always said. Yeah IC is a pain because I hate having to change messy ones and I am thankful I have a husband who helps me out with it. Also when I get a rash, that also sucks because I can't air out and I still don't change soon enough. I am thankful I don't have to pay for them but we still pay for the other ones we want. But I have came to a point now where I don't care if anyone finds out I wear them. I feel diapers have become part of me now it would probably feel strange if I didn't need them anymore all of a sudden."
incontinentsupport.org/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=13&t=510
"I think the positive thing about them is seeing who your true friends are. They also give me a normal life and help keep my pants dry. Bowel IC is a pain though and I have a husband who helps me with it but I am on my own with it when he is away.
My mom however suffered some abuse from day time accidents but never at night. She was a bedwetter and back then all they had was cloth so she wore whatever they were called and some rubber pants and they sure kept the bed dry for her.
www.dailydiapers.com/board/index.php?showtopic=43837&page=2
Wow that's crazy several days after this post. I'm at work and I see this mom and her kid and the mom has a bulge around her butt towards her legs.. Incredible. I don't think she was an ab/dl but I was staring.
"That could have been me. If you are in the London area and the mother looked young and so did her kid but not in his teens and not a toddler."
www.adisc.org/forum/adult-baby/85901-what-kind-caretaker-suits-you.html
"My daddy is my caretaker. He is always changing me and gives me baths sometimes and he makes sure I don't stay up too late and I eat right. He also loves me and would never humiliate me or harm me in any way."